Okay, so I need to
weigh in on the issue of Amway President Doug DeVos donating half a million
dollars to the National Organization for Marriage (NOM). As a young boy growing up in
Amway I had the pleasure of meeting Doug’s father, Amway co-founder Rich
DeVos. He knelt down until his
eyes met mine and shook my hand.
“Dream big son. You can be anything you put your mind to. Don’t lose
sight of the American dream.” That's what he said to me. Well what if my American Dream is to marry the man of my
dreams and have every American see me as an equal?
I watched my
parents and thousands of other couples parade across the stage at Amway rallies
around the world and not once did I ever see a gay couple. In fact when I
discovered I was gay my first thought was, “Oh no, what about taking over my
parent’s Amway business? I can’t do that if I’m gay!”
This past summer
my mother, no longer in Amway, turned seventy years old. My sisters and I threw
her a big surprise party and invited as many people from her life as we could
find, including my parent’s Amway sponsors. They were overjoyed to see me, but when I turned around to
introduce them to my boyfriend Jonathan, they simply turned away and ignored
him. They have made it known over
the years that they do not accept homosexuality. They pretended like Jonathan didn’t exist.
A spokeswoman for
Amway released the following statement in response to the recent boycott: “As
private citizens, the DeVos family supports causes and organizations that
advocate for policies aligned to their personal belief’s. The family believes
one of the highest callings of any individual is to express their own personal
beliefs as a participant in the democratic process.”
I could not agree
more. However, when you are donating to an organization that prevents
individuals from living freely in this democratic process you so admire, that
is not advocating “for the policies aligned to their personal beliefs.” That is not supporting free enterprise or
a society in which all are created equal. Rather, that's manipulating the system to appear
all-inclusive while fueling an organization that believes straight people are
better than gay people.
Amway then
released this statement: “Our employees and distributors come from all walks of
life and represent an incredibly diverse set of backgrounds. The Amway
opportunity is open to everyone.”
If that is
true, how many out gay employees work at Amway Headquarters? Does Amway have an LGBT community? That Amway statement is a big one to make in the press without statistics to back it up.
Rich DeVos made me
promise to dream big and never lose site of that dream. Well Rich, I haven’t.
Thank you for supporting this proud gay American. Now put your money where your
mouth is and donate $500,000 to an LGBT organization. Be a real man like
the ones I hang out with.
YES, PREACH. I think it's horrible that the gay community hasn't at least taken some sort of step in the Amway business. It is a great opportunity, and just because you're gay does NOT mean you can't succeed in it. One day we will all be truly equal.
ReplyDeleteYES, PREACH. I think it's horrible that the gay community hasn't at least taken some sort of step in the Amway business. It is a great opportunity, and just because you're gay does NOT mean you can't succeed in it. One day we will all be truly equal.
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